• Re: Family history (was:

    From NANCY BACKUS@1:123/140 to JOE MACKEY on Thu Jun 28 12:17:00 2018
    Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 06-27-18 07:18 <=-

    Just presenting a series of facts, dates, etc and learn by rote
    doesn't work.
    The one that made it deadly sat on a stool at the front of the room,
    reading the textbook to us.... it couldn't have been more dry, dusty
    or dull...

    I had a couple of those as well. :(

    I suppose the good thing is that we survived them.... <G>

    I remember a good English teacher I had, forget his name off hand,
    it being over 50 years ago.
    He actually taught the history of English, how it developed from
    other languages, also how other languages in Europe grew out of Greek
    and Latin, etc. How words sounded in the past. I still remember
    "knife" was pronounced "Ka-nif". which I still call them from time to time, especially when cooking and needing a certain one. :)

    I've called them that... and didn't realize it was the older
    pronunciation... He was a good teacher... made you appreciate the
    nuances of the language... :)

    Fortunately for us, she had to leave mid-year to have a baby...
    and the substitute that came in was the one that made history
    live for us... :)

    And replaced probably not too soon. :)

    Pretty much... :)

    X so you understand Y", not "you need to know this for the next
    test".
    Or even better, show how interesting it can be... Teaching to the
    test is not only deadly, it's mostly useless...

    Yep, forgotten as soon as the test is over.

    Exactly.

    Then talking with family, friends, etc who lived through those days
    or whose grandparents, etc did.
    That too... for things more close in time to us....

    One of the regrets in my life is not talking to my parents more
    about their families.
    Oh I knew Grandma and Grandpa did this and that, but not going back further. My mothers mother (descendant of the FFV side) was a school teacher and my grandfather, who was of German extraction, was a coal
    miner starting around 10 as a breaker boy and later worked at a
    factory, after they moved from the coal fields to here in 1918.
    One story she told was of Uncle Jack, who survived the 1906 San
    Francisco earthquake. She never knew what he was doing there. Her mothers great-uncle. My father's father ran the family saw mill and
    his boys (my uncles) were teachers (except for my father who went into medicine) and one was the principal of a large high school in another city. His sisters all stayed at home and never married, taking care of their parents. I take after my aunts, having never married. :)

    Some fascinating tales there... and who knows how much more you might
    have learned about them... but perhaps you got told all the stories they remembered... I was regaled with all sorts of family stories... but the
    best advice I got was from my mother-in-law, who had come a little late
    to genealogy after most were gone, to get as much information from all
    the older relatives as I could, starting with the oldest... and she
    pushed me at a point where I still had grandparents around with intact
    minds... so I was able to find out a lot more than I might have
    otherwise... And then, of course, she had me take that information and
    go check it out, doing real research in the records... :)

    (FFV) and I would joke they were probably indentured
    servants, which she didn't care to hear.
    I'd guess that you both were probably right... there was of course
    --snip--
    Keep in mind that for those indentured ones, it was usually
    short-term, and often just a means to an end, to get to the new
    country...

    Oh, absolutely. Nothing wrong with being indentured. It was merely someone who agreed to work to someone to pay for their transportation
    from England. I think the average time was like seven years. That
    time span sticks in my mind. And indentured servants could be
    anything from a field hand to a ladies maid to some sort of
    professional such as tailor, watchmaker, any number of things.

    Exactly. The seven years sounds likely... :)

    I have Scots on both of my father's lines... his father's Scots came
    just before the Rev War into Central PA, and stayed there...

    For years mine kept on the move. I always joked they were trying to
    stay one step ahead of the local sheriff. :)

    Who knows, you could be right... <G> That family, the immigrant come
    into the county just west of Harrisburg, and the two older sons, who
    served in the Rev War, moved up to be first settlers in Centre Co PA,
    and stayed there for a few generations... then my granddad's father
    moved to Altoona...

    grandmother's Scots came to NC just before the Civil War and ended
    up in Norfolk VA afterwards

    When my family had the saw mill it was originally still part of VA
    and they considered themselves Virginians.

    Well, they were... ;)

    When researching the 1850s-70 era I discovered an unknown Uncle
    Robert. Never heard of him before and double checking I found yes, he
    was part of the Mackey family. I did some more checking and found the reason he was never mentioned. He had joined the Union Army during the unpleasantness of the early 1860s. So in my family it really was
    brother against brother. Robert died in 1893.

    And never was reconciled to the family... That did happen, more often
    than some realize...

    Scotland... Granddad's were probably tenant farmers in Perthshire....

    Mine came from Sutherland, in the Highlands.
    Probably sheep stealers, since in that area there wasn't much more
    to do.

    Or they were tenant farmers as well, but caught in the Clearances...

    Grandmother's great-grandfather was a bookseller in Haddington...
    Her great-uncle, who also came to the States, was a doctor.... her
    grandfather was a seed merchant.... :)

    I always find it interesting how different family members have
    different jobs and slide up and down on the social scale.

    I've found lots of things interesting... including the insights one
    might get from obituaries and census records... ;) And even from
    wills... the immigrant into central PA opened his will by calling
    himself Yeoman, designating that he owned his land, a step up from his
    tenant farmer father, who had left Scotland with his sons for Ireland...
    when the boys grew up, they went, with their families, to America...

    Do you have any half-siblings alive that might
    have memories to share of your grandparents...?

    None on my fathers side.
    I have a half brother from out mothers first marriage but he's not interested in the past. To him anything more than five years old is ancient. Our mother's mother died when he was seven and father when he was 15. He could care less about family history.

    Then I guess you need to track down cousins... :)

    His father's side of the family he knows little about. But his grandmother was the only grandmother either of us really knew. (It's a long story, but a clean one). Basically his father and my mother
    remained friends after divorcing in 1940 and her ex's family was
    "adopted" by me as well, but no blood relation at all. His natural grandmother, who died in 1966 at 90) became my "grandmother" and since
    a child of our mother was accepted by her and I became a "grandson" to her. She was a nice old lady, looked like Beulah Bondi who was in a
    lot of old movies. Joe

    That's a good memory to have... ;)

    ttyl neb

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  • From joe mackey@1:154/30 to NANCY BACKUS on Fri Jun 29 07:03:07 2018
    Nancy wrote --

    Some fascinating tales there... and who knows how much more you might
    have learned about them... but perhaps you got told all the stories they remembered

    It's very possible, but being the typical kid I was probably not all that interested.
    One story my father liked to tell on himself (there are a few I remember since told several times) was when he was in med school at Johns Hopkins during
    WWI. (He had a draft deferment since in essential work). Working midnight's as a track switcher for the B&O he would sometimes take naps, laying across the
    rails. When the train approached the rails would vibrate, wake him up, he would throw the switch and after the train passed lay back down. :)

    JM>> When my family had the saw mill it was originally still part of VA
    JM>> and they considered themselves Virginians.

    Well, they were... ;)

    True. In pre-Civil War times people didn't consider themselves "Americans" as much as whatever state they lived in. They were first Virginians, or New Yorker's, etc, then American.

    I've found lots of things interesting... including the insights one
    might get from obituaries and census records... ;)

    Those are a great source of information. When available.
    A friend of mine is a genealogist (been with the Denver Public Library for many years). When he still lived here he knew every cemetery for miles around and would spend hours wandering through, recording grave stone information, plotting out on paper who was buried where, when, etc.
    Many family cemeteries had fallen into disrepair over the years as the off spring moved elsewhere. Many was the time he would find just a slight depression in the ground and mark it "unknown".

    the immigrant into central PA opened his will by calling
    himself Yeoman, designating that he owned his land, a step up from his tenant farmer father,

    Which was a big step up for anyone.

    JM>> was 15. He could care less about family history.

    The vast majority I have no idea where they are.
    The family is still trying to keep one step ahead of the local sheriff. :)
    Joe


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  • From NANCY BACKUS@1:123/140 to JOE MACKEY on Mon Jul 2 16:37:00 2018
    Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 06-29-18 07:03 <=-

    Some fascinating tales there... and who knows how much more you might
    have learned about them... but perhaps you got told all the stories they
    remembered

    It's very possible, but being the typical kid I was probably not all
    that interested.
    One story my father liked to tell on himself (there are a few I
    remember since told several times) was when he was in med school at
    Johns Hopkins during WWI. (He had a draft deferment since in essential work). Working midnight's as a track switcher for the B&O he would sometimes take naps, laying across the rails. When the train
    approached the rails would vibrate, wake him up, he would throw the
    switch and after the train passed lay back down. :)

    He was lucky that the vibration would wake him... otherwise he might
    not have lived to tell the tale... ;) I can see where that might have
    made more of an impression on you... ;)

    When my family had the saw mill it was originally still part of VA
    and they considered themselves Virginians.
    Well, they were... ;)

    True. In pre-Civil War times people didn't consider themselves "Americans" as much as whatever state they lived in. They were first Virginians, or New Yorker's, etc, then American.

    Which is why, when Virginia seceded, for instance, she took with her to
    the Army of the Confederacy quite a few West Point trained officers from
    the American Army...

    I've found lots of things interesting... including the insights one
    might get from obituaries and census records... ;)

    Those are a great source of information. When available. A friend
    of mine is a genealogist (been with the Denver Public Library for
    many years). When he still lived here he knew every cemetery for
    miles around and would spend hours wandering through, recording grave stone information, plotting out on paper who was buried where, when,
    etc. Many family cemeteries had fallen into disrepair over the years
    as the offspring moved elsewhere. Many was the time he would find
    just a slight depression in the ground and mark it "unknown".

    He did a very important service to the genealogists and family
    historians that would follow him... :) And there always are the
    "unknown"s that we can but do our best with... ;)

    the immigrant into central PA opened his will by calling
    himself Yeoman, designating that he owned his land, a step up from
    his tenant farmer father,

    Which was a big step up for anyone.

    Indeed. :)

    The vast majority I have no idea where they are.
    The family is still trying to keep one step ahead of the local
    sheriff. :) Joe

    Oh, well... maybe you'll run into them on the internet, or
    something.... ;)

    ttyl neb

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