he couldn't understand that using a credit card just delays paying forthe purchase. You or someone else has to pay for it. I guess he thought
ended up going into Chapter 13 Bankruptcy nearly 10 years ago.
I've used up all my sick days, so I'm calling in "dead". <G>
My ring tone for him is "blah-blah-blah-blah-blah".
Anymore instead of asking what he wants its "OK, I'll be there"
knowing what he wants.
Maybe one of these days, he'll be inviting you to some social event... ;)
Your brother isn't the only one who thinks that way.
Simple economics is no longer taught in school, how to balance a
cheque book, what credit is, what APR's are (which is the real killer), JM>etc. This was taught at one time in math class in junior high. Far too JM>many people think its just free money. They buy this, that and the other JM>without thinking and wind up in a world of hurt.
Plus too often the parents pay the bills so the kids don't even know.
And there is so much "free" credit out there, just make a minimum
payment, etc. Its all very tempting to a lot of people young and old.
Until I was in my 60s money was tight and I scrimped, eked out, etc.
Now that I am a bit more financially secure I still live that way. I JM>never want to go back to the early days of the late 1990s and early JM>2000s. Its sort of the mindset of people who lived through the Depression.
I don't horde my money, I'll freely give several hundred for a good
cause because I am able to and thankful for that. (I would rather give JM>cold hard cash rather than use my debit card or cheque since one gets on JM>a mailing list and everyday some group or other is begging for more and JM>more. With cash they have no way of "tracking me down" again. :)
I am thankful I didn't have to do that. The debt consolidation
company I worked with made sure of that.
I can't recall off hand the name of the company, have it somewhere.
There are several around the country. They contacted the creditors and JM>made deals with them, often greatly reducing the APR and stopping any JM>more interest being charged. Credit cards in general make their money on JM>high APR's.
I've used up all my sick days, so I'm calling in "dead". <G>
Funny thing, I have taken only one sick day in over 40 years.
I was a temp and working at a call centre contacting block captains in
New England for a national charity. There was a high turn over because JM>of the rude people we had to deal with. I can understand because they JM>had agreed and we were calling to remind them.
I am thankful I have no chronic health problems.
My ring tone for him is "blah-blah-blah-blah-blah".
Anymore instead of asking what he wants its "OK, I'll be there"
knowing what he wants.
Maybe one of these days, he'll be inviting you to some social event... ;)
Yeah, right, I'll be waiting by the phone for that call. :)
Sad. It was the same way with an episode of "I Dream Of Jeannie", ifI remember right. Tony Nelson (Larry Hagman) couldn't convince Jeannie
Simple economics is no longer taught in school, how to balance a
cheque book, what credit is, what APR's are (
I never had an economics course, but I did well in math...at least up through Algebra 1 -- when it got into Algebra 2, it got daunting.
is in trouble for it. Yet, that was the tax preparer's fault...not his. IPlus too often the parents pay the bills so the kids don't even know.
That's what my Mom was doing for my brother. And, apparently, the guy
who did his taxes last year, forgot to put in 2 forms, and my brother
I think many of them finally banned these "monetary vultures".And there is so much "free" credit out there, just make a minimum
payment, etc. Its all very tempting to a lot of people young and old.
Years ago, the credit card folks were swarming the college campuses.
and you've got the greedy bastard politicians in Washington, DC,
lamenting that "they can't survive on $175,000 to $500,000 a year or
more". They don't have a clue.
I asked the lawyer "why the big fees??". The reply: "Yachts, RV's,homes, etc.".
That's for sure. The thing is, with a lot of these homeless people,stay home that day, and drive off in a Lexus.
who are panhandling on the street corners, while there may be some who
are legitimately in need...most likely are getting their money that
way. They don't have to pay taxes, can do it whenever they want, or
means no extra money for them.Credit cards in general make their money on high APR's.
That's how they can do their rewards and cash back deals...plus pay
the salaries of their employees. They HATE folks who make the full
monthly payment each month, or hardly charge anything...because it
And that was in the day when credit cards were a status symbol.
They weren't handed out like candy on Halloween as today.
I was taught simple econ in math class, how to make a budget, etc.
I've known many people over the years who don't know how, or make, a
budget. X income to pay for rent, electric, savings, this, that and the JM>other, with Y amount of disposable income for the month or Y amount in JM>the hole. Instead they get a cheque of some sort and spend it all, then JM>have nothing for the rest of the month.
Its just really tempting for some people to spend the money in their
pocket.
I remember being told "someday you will need to know and use this" and
being the all knowing high school student, who was much smarter than the JM>teachers I thought "yeah, right". Then years later realised that yeah, JM>I need to use that from time to time.
My taxes are relatively simple and use TurboTax on line, which is free
since I use the EZ form.
They are really good at finding things to either deduct or get a refund
that I never knew when doing it myself.
In the past I would get a pittance in state tax refund, but with TT I
get a bit more back.
I think the only ones there now are a couple of banks signing up new
depositors. (Of course once the kid is with that bank, CC offers could JM>be made).
They claim they need a larger salary because they HAVE to have two
homes (one in their home state, the other in DC), etc.
I would like to see government go back to the days when they lived in
DC for only a few months a year, and stayed at hotels or boarding houses.
Nowadays the only time they go back home is election time.
They have learned that unlimited pork barrel means votes.
Here in WV Robert Byrd was senator longer than anyone can remember. He
brought home the pork (buildings, bridges, roads, etc, all with his name JM>plastered all over them) and had no real competition for years and years.
I asked the lawyer "why the big fees??". The reply: "Yachts, RV's, JM>homes, etc.".
An honest lawyer! :)
I have seen and read many stories of panhandlers who make 100s of tax
free dollars a day! Now not all of them, but if they have a good JM>corner... A dollar here and a dollar there all adds up.
These are the people that laugh at saps who work everyday and pay taxes.
I was talking to my banker once and somehow my bank credit card came up
and I said its had a $200 cap since I got it. He suggested, in all JM>seriousness, to max it out and then not pay the full amount, carry a JM>balance and over time the cap would be raised.
Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 11-19-18 06:25 <=-
My ring tone for him is "blah-blah-blah-blah-blah".Maybe one of these days, he'll be inviting you to some social event... ;)
Anymore instead of asking what he wants its "OK, I'll be there"
knowing what he wants.
Yeah, right, I'll be waiting by the phone for that call. :)
Apparently, his wife, Marilyn (who he termed as "no mental giant") was
one of these who was always ending up overdrawn at the bank each month.
was going to do!! And, you know...I didn't see that woman for 5 days.has started going down"!! <BG>
Then, I got a glimpse of her, out of my left eye, where the swelling
I think Red Skelton did a similar routine, but I'm not sure who didit first.
Seriously, in many areas now, the plumbing and pipes are so old, that putting a bunch of toilet paper down the commodes is clogging the lines,
Anyway, I have a separate trash can in the restroom just for that.
field of study has nothing to do with such and such course, why should
you still have to take that course??
And, they're not going to tell them the real economic truth, orbe a waste of time for these "monetary vultures".
"the smart kids" would walk away, and tell others of this. Then, it'd
I had to learn the hard way about credit cards.
I heard that in Texas, the state only pays the legislature when they
are actually in session, and working.
Three things you will NEVER see, IMO, in Washington, DC:
1) The END of political pork.
2) Term Limits (max of 2 terms), then a lifetime ban on lobbying.
3) Max 20% of total salary upon leaving office for the rest of their
life. Let them get their own health insurance.
Apparently, his wife, Marilyn (who he termed as "no mental giant") was JM>> one of these who was always ending up overdrawn at the bank each month.
"But I can't be overdrawn! I still have cheques left." :)
I think Red Skelton did a similar routine, but I'm not sure who did JM>it first.
I think so.
Its one of those jokes that pop up every now and then.
What I hate are those low volume toilets today. They use less water
with each flush but sometimes it takes several flushes to do the job of JM>the old one.
There's a drug store in a nearby town that has a great soda fountain.
Now they sell more ice cream and sandwiches than they do drugs.
Anyway, they remodeled their bathroom in keeping with the retro look
(they do use the original 1900 era marble counter) that has the tank JM>above the toilet itself with a pull chain. Man, when that thing is JM>flushed I think the water pressure for three blocks around lowers. :)
I'm old-fashioned, I use a cloth hand towel. When dirty its washed and
used again. Have had it for years.
It was a three roll pack and the second roll is only about half used.
To be well rounded, in a liberal (old style) education.
There are all sorts of videos on You Tube of college aged students
asked simple history questions who haven't a clue. They may be scholars JM>in their field but know nothing about history, science, etc.
But how many of the others would actually listen? Too so many its just
free money or mommy and daddy will pay it. ==sigh==
I got into trouble with I was between jobs for several months and then
it was only necessities (food, shelter, etc).
They have January and February to conduct state business. But they
piddle around the first six weeks then say they need more time to do what JM>they are there for.
Three things you will NEVER see, IMO, in Washington, DC:
1) The END of political pork.
2) Term Limits (max of 2 terms), then a lifetime ban on lobbying.
3) Max 20% of total salary upon leaving office for the rest of their
life. Let them get their own health insurance.
Agreed!
scholars in their field but know nothing about history, science, etc.asked simple history questions who haven't a clue. They may be
That really gets me. You ask "Who's buried in Grant's Tomb?", and they
have such a blank look on their faces!!
A few years ago I was in a Dollar General store and if one correctly
answered a history question they got a discount on their purchase.
I was asked, "Who was president in 1881?" and I quickly replied
"Garfield". The clerk checked and sure enough I was right.
He asked I knew that and I said its simple, there was Lincoln, Johnson,
Grant then Garfield".
People around me said they had no idea there was a President Garfield.
Like the old saying, "To many people, history started when they were
born". Anything before then doesn't mean anything.
Joe (Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it. You
may quote me on that, thought someone else originally said it).
correctly answered a history question they got a discount on theirA few years ago I was in a Dollar General store and if one
I'll bet they were amazed. They should've asked you severalquestions, and you probably could've shopped for free. <G>
You may quote me on that, thought someone else originally said it).Joe (Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
Plagiarist. <g,d,r>
You may quote me on that, thought someone else originally said it).
Plagiarist. <g,d,r>
That's where I get my best ideas!
Quoting Joe Mackey to Daryl Stout on 11-20-18 07:41 <=-
Credit cards in general make their money on high APR's.That's how they can do their rewards and cash back deals...plus pay
the salaries of their employees. They HATE folks who make the full
monthly payment each month, or hardly charge anything...because it
means no extra money for them.
They gotta make a living as well... :)
I was talking to my banker once and somehow my bank credit card came
up and I said its had a $200 cap since I got it. He suggested, in all seriousness, to max it out and then not pay the full amount, carry a balance and over time the cap would be raised.
max it out and then not pay the full amount, carry a
balance and over time the cap would be raised.
And did you let him know that you intended to keep that cap....?
Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 11-26-18 06:48 <=-
max it out and then not pay the full amount, carry aAnd did you let him know that you intended to keep that cap....?
balance and over time the cap would be raised.
Still have it, several years later.
There was only one time that a high limit would have come in handy.
I was renting a car and paid with my debit card (I had moved money
from savings to checking for that) yet still needed a credit card for something and the guy did a work around.
To me a debit card is more safe since one needs that amount to pay
right then.
Besides, if someone gets that CC number they can only spend so much.
Like Richard, I sometimes use it for Net purchases for that reason.
Years ago I was getting all sorts of odd deductions and seems
someone somewhere had gotten my number and used it for other purposes
and ran up hundreds on porn sites.
The bank quickly tracked them down and I got the money back, save
for about $40.
I had contacted these sites myself and got nowhere. But when the
bank called they were quick to return it. :)
It's good the guy was able to do the workaround... :)
stores or sites or whatever.... It happened to me once, on a debit
card... and the bank caught it before I got a statement... the perps
were stopped, and I got my money back....
Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 11-30-18 06:21 <=-
It's good the guy was able to do the workaround... :)
I imagine being an long time customer helped as well. :)
Been a Enterprise user for over 25 years. Haven't rented a lot, but
been on the books. :)
stores or sites or whatever.... It happened to me once, on a debit
card... and the bank caught it before I got a statement... the perps
were stopped, and I got my money back....
I get a daily e-mail from the bank of all activity. If I get
something that seems odd I trot down to the bank and talk to someone.
The dumbest thing happened one time.
I got a mysterious deduction from a well known internet company, (I
won't mention any names --under my breath-- paypal) and had no idea
what it was for. Instead of saying something like "payment to" it was just a odd grouping of letters and numbers. Even the bank couldn't
figure what it was for. That was stopped till things could be figured out. Shortly after I get a notice from a source I had set up
recurring payments wanting to know why it was stopped.
Why can't companies put show the name of whom the payment is for?
Seems it would be easier that way. Or a reminded a few days before.
I mean they have "Algore rhythms" for that.
I haven't set anything like that up.... So far, the banks have been good NB>at catching things and letting me know... :)
Did the guy at the counter recognize you...? or was it just seeing you
and your history in the computer when he brought it up....?
out. Shortly after I get a notice from a source I had set up
recurring payments wanting to know why it was stopped.
At least that let you know who it was, and that it was legit... <G>
You'd think. Maybe you'd have to specifically set up email remindersof soon-to-post payments with the company....? :)
Quoting Daryl Stout to Nancy Backus on 12-02-18 12:35 <=-
I haven't set anything like that up.... So far, the banks have been
good at catching things and letting me know... :)
My bank gives me text alerts, and calls my cellphone, on any
"questionable transaction(s)".
Quoting Joe Mackey to Nancy Backus on 12-03-18 06:05 <=-
Did the guy at the counter recognize you...? or was it just seeing you
and your history in the computer when he brought it up....?
No, he was some new guy, at least to me.
But then I hadn't rented a car for a few years so he may have been
around a while.
out. Shortly after I get a notice from a source I had set upAt least that let you know who it was, and that it was legit... <G>
recurring payments wanting to know why it was stopped.
-- snip--
You'd think. Maybe you'd have to specifically set up email reminders
of soon-to-post payments with the company....? :)
One would think so.
Most services I use do that, or if there's a problem* they let me
know the details.
(*When there's a problem with my card that is stopped, a new one
issued and problems are usually when the old number needs to be
changed). Joe
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